30th Birthday Gift Ideas for Your Son

At 30, your son probably has a career under way, a place of his own and maybe a family starting. The best 30th birthday gifts for a son upgrade the things he uses every day or give him a break from all that responsibility. Here are 12 ideas from about $40 to a real splurge. Our top pick is a song about him, because at 30 it is rare to hear someone say out loud who you have become.

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12 gift ideas for your son's 30th birthday

1. A song about him at 30 ($39.90). Share where he started, what he has built and the nickname that stuck, and Songbond turns it into an original song, ready within 24 hours. He can play it for the people who only know him as an adult.
2. A proper espresso machine. If he lives on coffee, this upgrades every single morning. Usually $150 to $500.
3. A pizza oven for the backyard. A small outdoor oven turns an ordinary Saturday into a party. Usually $200 to $500.
4. A leather weekender bag. For the friends' weddings and weekends away that fill a man's thirties. Usually $120 to $300.
5. A round at a course he has always wanted to play. Book the tee time and go with him if he will have you. Usually $80 to $300.
6. His childhood collection, framed. Baseball cards, ticket stubs, the program from his first big game. A framer can arrange them in one display. Usually $60 to $150.
7. A butchery or knife-skills class. Hands-on, a little messy and useful for years. Usually $80 to $200.
8. Two made-to-measure shirts. A shirt cut for his body is a small luxury most men never try. Usually $80 to $150 each.
9. A home beer-brewing kit. A weekend project that ends with a case to share with friends. Usually $50 to $150.
10. A national parks or museum membership. A year of reasons to get out of the house on weekends. Usually $80 to $150.
11. A good office chair. If he works from home, his back will notice by Wednesday. Usually $200 to $500.
12. A comedy night for him and his partner. Tickets to a comedian he quotes, plus a drink after. Usually $40 to $100 a ticket.

How to choose for a son turning 30

Look at the room he spends the most time in. If it is the kitchen, go for coffee, cooking or the pizza oven. If it is the backyard or the garage, go for something he can build or use outside. If it is his desk, make his workday better.

• If he loves to host: the pizza oven, the brewing kit or the espresso machine.
• If he works from home: the office chair, the shirts or the membership that gets him out.
• If he still loves what he loved at 10: the golf round, the framed collection or the song.

What to put in a 30th birthday song for your son

From the stories parents send us, the details that make a song land are small and specific. Loving, kind and hardworking describe most sons. What makes a song his is the nickname from Little League, the job he stuck with when he wanted to quit, the dog he adopted at 24 and talks to like a roommate. Pick three details like that before you order: one from childhood, one from his twenties and one from right now. The song will sound like him and nobody else.

Make a song for his 30th

Create a 30th birthday song for your son. Share those three details, and his song is ready within 24 hours. If the party is tomorrow, express delivery gets it to you in about an hour.

Also in the Journal: songs for a 30th birthday and milestone birthday song ideas.