50th Birthday Gift Ideas for Your Sister

A 50th birthday is the one where your sister looks back as much as forward. The best 50th birthday gift for a sister honors the half century behind her and gives her something to enjoy in the years ahead. These 12 ideas cover both, from gifts that cost nothing to a real splurge. Our top pick is a song about her life so far, because nobody can tell her story the way family can.

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12 50th birthday gift ideas for your sister

1. A song about her 50 years ($39.90). Give us a detail from each decade, from the bike she crashed at eight to the job she finally loves, and Songbond turns it into an original song. It is ready within 24 hours.
2. A photo album of the two of you, decade by decade. Five sections, one for each decade, with a line under every photo. Usually $40 to $80 to print.
3. The trip she has talked about for years. The coast, the city or the country she keeps mentioning at dinner. Go with her if you can.
4. A family recipe book. Collect the recipes your mom and grandmother made, type them up with a short story for each and have it printed and bound. About $30 to $60.
5. A simple gold piece she will wear every day. Small hoops, a fine chain or a signet ring with her initial. Expect $150 to $400.
6. Letters from every decade of her life. Find one person who knew her at 10, 20, 30 and 40, and ask each to write a page. It is free, but it takes a few weeks of tracking people down.
7. A course in something she always wanted to learn. Pottery, painting, piano or Italian. A term of classes usually costs $150 to $300.
8. The newspaper from the day she was born, framed. The front page from her birth date, ready to hang. Usually $30 to $60 with a frame.
9. A family portrait session. Book a photographer and get everyone together, your parents included if you can. Usually $200 to $500, and it becomes the photo everyone wants a copy of.
10. An e-reader loaded with books. Pick ten titles you think she would love and load them before you wrap it. About $100 to $150.
11. A cashmere wrap. Warm, light and easy to carry, in a color she already wears. Usually $80 to $200.
12. Flowers every month for a year. A standing order with a local florist, so her birthday keeps arriving. Usually $30 to $60 a month.

How to choose for her 50th

Look at where she is right now. Fifty often arrives when the kids are leaving home, work has settled down and there is finally a little room to breathe. The right gift fits that stage of her life.

• If she has an empty nest: the course, the trip or the e-reader.
• If she is the one who holds the family together: the recipe book, the portrait or the song.
• If she is the sister who has everything: the letters, the newspaper or the flowers.

What to put in a 50th birthday song for your sister

Pick one detail from each decade and write it down before you order. The details that make a song land are small and specific: a family nickname, a habit, a phrase everyone repeats. Words like loving, kind and thoughtful describe almost every sister and make a weak song. Details like the way she hums while she cooks, or the fact that she has never once been on time, make it sound like her. Add the names of the people she loves most and one line about what you hope the years ahead bring her.

Give her a song for her 50th

Create a 50th birthday song for your sister. Send us her story, and her song is ready within 24 hours. If you are short on time, express delivery gets it to you in about an hour.

Also in the Journal: 50th birthday songs and songs for a sister.