50th Birthday Gift Ideas for Your Wife

Fifty is a milestone she will remember, and so will you. The best 50th birthday gifts for a wife look back at the life you have built together and forward to the half she has not lived yet. Below are 11 ideas at a range of budgets, several of which get the whole family involved. Our top pick is a song about her, because fifty years of stories deserve more than a card.

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11 50th birthday gift ideas for your wife

1. A song about her fifty years ($39.90). From the town she grew up in to the house you share now, with the names of the kids, the dogs and the friends who matter. Songbond turns your stories into an original song she can play again at 60 and 70.
2. A photo book in five chapters. One chapter for each decade of her life, with photos borrowed from her parents and siblings for the early years. Usually $40 to $100 to print.
3. The someday trip. The one you both keep saying you will take when the time is right. Fifty is the time. Book Italy, the Alaska cruise or the national parks road trip, even if you travel later in the year.
4. A five-stone ring or pendant. One stone for each decade, or one for each person in your family, set in gold for fifty. Expect $200 to $1,000.
5. A party with people from every chapter. Track down her childhood best friend, her college roommate, the old colleague she still calls. Surprise guests matter more than decorations.
6. Lessons for the thing she said she would do later. Piano, Italian, watercolor, golf. Pay for a full term, not a single taster. Usually $150 to $400.
7. The front page from the day she was born. An original or reprinted newspaper from her birth date, framed. Usually $30 to $70.
8. Linen sheets and new pillows. A real upgrade to the place she spends a third of her life. Usually $150 to $400.
9. Dance lessons for the two of you. Ballroom, swing or salsa, once a week for a couple of months. Usually $100 to $300.
10. All the kids home at once. If your children are grown and scattered, fly them home for the same weekend and keep it a secret until they walk in. It will be the photo she frames from this birthday.
11. An e-reader full of books. Load it with the novels she keeps meaning to read and a few old favorites. Usually $100 to $250.

How to choose her 50th birthday gift

At 50, many women are between chapters: kids leaving home, parents getting older, work settling into a new shape. Ask yourself which of those she is feeling most, and let the gift answer it.

• If the house has gone quiet: all the kids home at once, the photo book or the dance lessons.
• If she is ready for adventure: the someday trip or the lessons she put off.
• If she loves a keepsake: the five-stone piece, the front page or the song.

Bring the kids into it

A 50th birthday is a family birthday. Ask each of your children to send you one memory of their mom: a thing she always says, a time she showed up for them, a meal only she makes. Grandchildren can send a drawing or a single line. Put those memories in her card, read them aloud at dinner, or pass them on for her song so it carries the whole family. Start collecting two weeks ahead, because grown kids always need a reminder. If one of them lives far away, a voice memo works just as well as a written note.

Make her 50th birthday song

Create a 50th birthday song for your wife with memories from you and the kids. It is ready within 24 hours, and express delivery gets it to you in about an hour if the day is already here.

Also in the Journal: songs for a 50th birthday and anniversary songs for your wife.