80th Birthday Gift Ideas for Dad

Eighty is a big number, and your dad knows it even if he pretends not to. At this age he likely wants fewer things and more of the people and places that made his life. The best 80th birthday gift ideas for dad are comfortable, useful every day, or full of faces he has not seen in a while. Our top pick is a song about him, because it puts his whole story in one place he can play again.

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12 80th birthday gift ideas for dad

1. A song about his 80 years ($39.90). Tell Songbond about his work, his marriage, the kids and grandkids and the saying he is known for, and it becomes an original song within 24 hours. Play it at the party, then leave it on his phone or speaker.
2. A reunion lunch with his old crew. Find the people he worked with, served with or bowled with, and book a table. You may be surprised how many say yes.
3. A tablet set up for video calls. Large text, the family's faces on the home screen, one tap to call. Set it up fully before you give it. Usually $100 to $300.
4. His working life in a book. Photos of his shop, his trucks, his office or his crew, with a line under each. Usually $40 to $100.
5. A ball game from the good seats. Near the aisle and close to the restrooms, with a ride right to the gate. Usually $100 to $300 for two.
6. A flannel robe and slippers with a good grip. Warm, and safer on hard floors. Usually $50 to $120.
7. A restored photo of his parents. Take the faded print to a restorer and frame the result. Usually $20 to $100.
8. A grandkids' fix-it day. The grandchildren show up with tools and a list: the gutters, the squeaky door, the bulbs he cannot reach anymore. He supervises. It costs nothing.
9. A jigsaw puzzle made from a family photo. 300 to 500 pieces, right for a week at the kitchen table. Usually $30 to $50.
10. His favorite meal, cooked by the family. The pot roast or the fish fry he loves, served on the good plates with everyone at the table.
11. A stack of large-print books by his favorite author. The westerns, the mysteries or the war histories he always reads, in type he can manage without squinting. Usually $15 to $30 each.
12. An engraved walking stick. A handsome wooden cane with his initials or birth year on the collar. Usually $50 to $150.

How to choose a gift for an 80-year-old dad

Notice what has changed in his day. If he gets out less, bring the world to him. If he still drives and plays golf, give him a reason to go somewhere. And if he has been talking more about the old days, take that as your cue to give him something with his history in it.

• If he is mostly at home: the tablet, the puzzle or the large-print books.
• If he still likes an outing: the ball game or the reunion lunch.
• If he talks about the past a lot: the work book, the restored photo or the song.

How to include family who cannot be there

At 80, some of the people he loves live far away and some cannot travel. Ask each of them to record a short phone video, 30 seconds at most, sharing one memory of him. Play them on the TV at the party, or save them on his tablet so he can watch one a day for the next month. Set up one live video call during the cake so a far-off brother or grandchild can sing along. If you order a song, send the link to everyone so they hear it the same day he does.

Give him his 80th birthday song

Create a song for your dad's 80th. Tell us about him, and it is ready within 24 hours. If the party is close, express delivery gets it to you in about an hour.

Also in the Journal: songs for an 80th or 90th birthday and songs for grandpa.