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The Day I Give You Away

Music cover for The Day I Give You Away by Songbond, with a mother's hands fastening small buttons on an ivory wedding dress beneath a large dark serif title.
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A sentimental wedding gift from mother to daughter

Wedding-dress buttons and a perfume from another wedding connect a mother’s memories with her daughter’s wedding morning.

The words

Lyrics

Forty-two buttons up your back And I'm taking my sweet time I buttoned you at four years old Into a flower girl's white lace You spun until you fell down dizzy — I see that same spin in your face Hold still, baby, almost done Hold still — let me look at you This is the day I give you away With hands that learned you by heart Every dress I ever fastened Was practice for this part I'm not losing you, my darling — I'm just letting the world see what I made You smell like the perfume I wore At my own wedding, way back when You found the bottle in my dresser — Oh, there go my eyes again The cars are waiting, music's ready One more breath, just ours This is the day I give you away With hands that learned you by heart Every dress I ever fastened Was practice for this part I'm not losing you, my darling — I'm just letting the world see what I made One day it might be your turn — Some bright morning, buttons and held breath And you'll finally know this ache I'm wearing: The proudest one a heart can get This is the day I give you away With hands that learned you by heart Every dress I ever fastened Was practice for this part I'm not losing you, my darling — I'm just letting the world see what I made There. Last button. You're ready Go on, my girl — I'm right behind you

Behind the song

The story

There are forty-two buttons up the back of the dress, and her hands know this work — they fastened the flower-girl lace at four, the dress she spun in until she fell down dizzy, every costume of a girl becoming. This morning she goes slow on purpose, one button at a time. The girl smells like the perfume her mother wore at her own wedding, found in a dresser drawer; there go the eyes again. The cars are waiting, the music's ready, one more breath that's only theirs. For the mother who isn't losing a daughter, just letting the world see what she made.

The story behind this Songbond listening example.

From this song to your gift

Keep a moment that belongs to just the two of you

Wedding-dress buttons and a perfume from another wedding connect a mother’s memories with her daughter’s wedding morning. A personal gift can celebrate the woman her daughter has become while giving their relationship its own quiet moment.

A mother can give this keepsake to her daughter before or around the wedding, using language that respects her daughter’s choices.

How to give it

Give her a private first listen ahead of the busy wedding morning so the gift does not add another task to the schedule.

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Giving a personal song

Does the gift need to say I am giving my daughter away?

No. That is the sample’s title, while the story emphasizes continuing connection. Use wording you and your daughter are comfortable with, such as celebrating or standing beside her.

Is this the recording I receive when I order a custom gift?

“The Day I Give You Away” is a public listening example. A custom-song request uses the story you share; check the current creation page for what is included and how changes work.

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